Love and submission is the two strong pillar and a force that holds the union together. If the love of husband and wife is created and commanded by God as a display of his love and care for the Church, then it will be constantly under attack, and practice.
The Bridegroom
Men have been commanded to be the physical and sporitoleadet of our wives and homes, but most men do not have a clue on how to do that, then it becomes they need the help of God following His precepts about LOVE in the family. (if you love your wife as Christ loves the church, you will make her role of submission to you easier. Christ gave himself whole heatedly without without any reservations, he demonstrated a love without dissimulation. Likewise you husband (the head of the house) should water love to your wife without reservation.
There is a heroic elements in Christ's love which needs to be perfectly displayed by the husband to the wife: 1. supportive, suffering; helping one another in every aspect. 2. Satisfying, strengthening; as you loved yourself and cherishing what you have personally so must you(husbands) be contented with your wives and be satisfied with them alone. 3. sustaining; endeavoring to maintain that love without recoiling out. 4. Supplying; always make sure you keep playing your roles perfectly by supplying more and more love to your wife. 5. Sincere/ sincerity 6. Security, separating 7. Strife free. 8. Supplication.
you husbands are under the divine Obligation to love your wife without reservation, pretense or prejudice. You are to love your wife by:
Leading, Giving, Living Holy, Caring, Exclusive devotion, Providing (protection, Shelter), Loving as you love yourself, Cherishing her, Nourishing her, Inspiring her, Cleaving and covering her.
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wives are to submit being under the order of the husband. Their obligation given by God is to lower themselves down to the regulations of their husbands. Submission in these perspectives is not a mark of weakness, inferiority or disability. Submission is an intelligent choice to follow someone else's leading. Submission is a mark of; reverence, respect and loyalty. God has given such opportunity to man such as the leader of the family. Submission simply means that you voluntarily and willingly yields to the head of the Union based on God's command.
Submission is s happy response to the husband's biblical leadership. It us an evidence of intelligence and joyful support for the leadership of her husband. An absolute trust of the wife on the husband to do what is right in the sight of God. Wife's submission is the responsiveness to her husband's initiative, taking not comprehensive control but involves her in the planning of the family. It is not a subjugation. God does not mean dictatorial subjection. So Christian wives must submit because it is the right thing to do. By submitting it is a SERVICE of UNITY, BEAUTY of MARRIAGE, INTENTIONorINSPIRATIONS of TRUST.
god wants us to maintain a Godly home in principle and in practice at all time.
